I’m soo excited guys! I got my “Choose Love” and “Choose Gratitude” journal’s from moneysavingmom.com!! Crystal has been an inspiration to me since I found her on periscope a couple of weeks back. I’ve loved her motivational scopes and think she’s a lot of fun! She has these wonderful journals available in her store and I’m so excited to share them with you all!
How many times have you yelled, or raised your voice, at your kids and then immediately started to feel bad? Or if not immediate, it starts to eat at you later and you feel terrible. I never thought I would yell at my kids. I consider myself a pretty patient person, and I’ve always been determined to have a good relationship with them. When the older two were babies I was so patient. I didn’t foresee my future self with four, sometimes five kids, overwhelmed, exhausted, and at my wits end. I also had no idea how other stresses could make it easier to lash out at the people I love, including my children. But it makes me feel terrible. And do you know what’s worse? It gets easier to be cross. Once you’ve allowed yourself to lash out, it becomes easier the next time you’re stressed and impatient.
I’m not saying that I just lose my mind and scream at my kiddos like a crazy person. But I do lash out and let myself get angry more times than I feel is, or should be, characteristic of my personality. After a couple of really rough pregnancies, including bed rest, then postpartum stuff, some other health issues, and other outside situations, I’ve allowed myself to become less patient. It’s been bothering me a lot lately. Thankfully it’s gotten better as I’ve noticed it and started consciously trying not to raise my voice.
It’s easy when everything is going right, and they’re being good. I love to laugh with my kids, and we talk and have fun together a lot. I’m really not talking about a constant thing, just the tense times. The times when they push all my buttons. (And you know they know just what buttons to push!) I’ve been trying very hard to do better during those times. The other day I was watching a periscope by Crystal Paine and she was talking about her Choose Love journal I and.bracelet. It was exactly what I needed! I wanted to share with you guys early this month because it would make a great Christmas gift for the momma’s on your list. Or for yourself! 😉 It’s also a great time to get one because you can start it at the beginning of the new year. I’m sure we could all resolve to do better with our attitudes is 2016…!
It’s a sweet, simple journal with the purpose of putting the focus on being grateful and loving. It includes journaling prompts to get you thinking about how you can be intentional about your goal, and it’s full of inspirational quotes. You also have a couple of lines to write down one thing from each day. You can use it to record funny moments, things you want to journal in your scrapbook, or to write something you are grateful for. I plan to use it for all of these purposes, depending on what’s happened that particular day. Just something that sticks out in my mind that reminds me just how blessed I am, and just how much I love them! I was lucky enough to get the bracelet, but it sold out shortly after the release. They had been restocked but they sold out again! If you are able to get the bracelet I would recommend it. It’s cute and can be worn with almost anything. Having that bracelet on is a constant reminder to choose love.
I will choose love more by taking myself out of the situation and trying to see why the child is behaving the way that they are. I will also try to find the humor in a situation, because laughing always helps with any negative emotion! I’ll try to keep in mind that they are people too, with real issues, and feelings. And I have a responsibility to respect that. If I need to leave the room, I will. But rather than behaving based on often unfair emotions, I will strive even more, to choose love!
She also offers a Choose Gratitude journal. It’s similar but more general, while the Choose Love is more specific to Mom’s. It also includes quotes for inspiration and room for journaling. I ordered each of my older kids one for Christmas. I do feel like the quotes and inspiration in it are more meant for an adult, but I still think it’ll be good for them. (I heard that she’s coming out with one that’s specifically for children though!) I think it’ll be really great if they can learn to find the good in life and focus on gratitude. Children often take things for granted, I’d really love to see my kids learn to recognize how blessed they truly are. Let me know if you get one, and how much you love it! I’m so excited to start using mine!!
Smile through the trials